During the college application process, it's important for parents to find strategies to step back and allow their children to take the lead. One effective strategy is to encourage open communication and provide support without taking over the process. This can be achieved by setting clear expectations and boundaries, while also offering guidance when needed.

For example, parents can help their children create a realistic timeline for completing applications, researching schools, and preparing for standardized tests. By offering resources and assistance without micromanaging, parents can empower their children to take ownership of their college journey.

Additionally, it's crucial for parents to manage their own anxieties and expectations during this process. This can be achieved through self-reflection, seeking support from other parents going through the same experience, and maintaining a healthy balance between involvement and giving space to their children.

References:

• "Letting Go: A Parent's Guide to Understanding the College Years" by Karen Levin Coburn and Madge Lawrence Treeger
• "The Overparenting Epidemic: Why Helicopter Parenting Is Bad for Your Kids . . . and Dangerous for You, Too!" by George S. Glass and David Tabatsky