In "Mom Is Obsessed With How I Look," the protagonist feels the weight of her mother's constant focus on appearances. Her mom frequently critiques her style, makeup, and weight, creating pressure for the protagonist to meet unrealistic beauty standards. 

This obsession leads to tension in their relationship, as the protagonist struggles to assert her own identity and self-worth beyond her looks. She feels that her mother's love is conditional, tied to her appearance rather than her character or achievements.

As the story progresses, the protagonist begins to push back against her mother's expectations, seeking to embrace her own style and self-image. Ultimately, the narrative explores themes of self-acceptance, the impact of societal beauty standards, and the journey to redefine one's worth beyond physical appearance.