For years, I dealt with a bully who tormented me, only to later realize that beneath their cruel behavior lay a complicated mix of admiration and jealousy—they actually had feelings for me. This revelation was confusing and unsettling, forcing me to confront the situation and set boundaries. I learned that love can be complicated, but it’s essential to prioritize self-respect and healthy relationships. Ultimately, understanding this helped me reclaim my power and move forward from our tumultuous dynamic.