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Hard to connect with non-business owners- Anyone find this the case that it’s just hard to connect anymore with 9-5 workers? We have some neighbors we had dinner with last night, but when it comes to talking about work it just goes right over there head and almost comes across as they’re intimidated by it because they can’t understand it. Same thing happens talking to neighbors about my successful ecomm biz, they just don’t get it. Starting to think I just need to make friends with fellow business owners only lol. This stuff changes your DNA, so it’s understandable to a degree. Curious everyone’s thoughts.

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It is understandable that you may find it challenging to connect with non-business owners, especially if you are heavily involved in the entrepreneurial world. The differences in lifestyle, priorities, and mindset between business owners and 9-5 workers can create barriers to effective communication and understanding. However, it is important to approach this issue with empathy and an open mind. One reason for the difficulty in connecting could be the difference in experiences and perspectives. As a business owner, you are likely to face unique challenges, take risks, and make decisions that may be unfamiliar to non-business owners. This can lead to a disconnect when discussing work-related topics. For example, if you talk about the intricacies of running an e-commerce business, your neighbors may struggle to relate because they have not experienced similar situations. Moreover, the language and jargon used in the business world can be alienating to those outside of it. Technical terms, acronyms, and specific industry knowledge may be second nature to you, but they can be overwhelming for others. It is important to be mindful of this and adapt your communication style accordingly. Instead of diving into complex business concepts, try finding common ground or using relatable examples to make your point. Another aspect to consider is the difference in priorities and lifestyle. Business owners often have to dedicate significant time and effort to their ventures, which can affect their availability for socializing or engaging in activities that non-business owners may enjoy. This can create a sense of disconnect and make it harder to build meaningful relationships. However, it is essential to find a balance and make time for social interactions outside of the business realm. This can help bridge the gap and foster connections with non-business owners. While it is natural to gravitate towards people who share similar experiences and understand the challenges of entrepreneurship, limiting your social circle exclusively to fellow business owners may also limit your perspective and growth. Building connections with people from diverse backgrounds can offer fresh insights, new perspectives, and opportunities for personal development. It is important to find common ground beyond business and appreciate the unique strengths and experiences that each individual brings to the table. In conclusion, connecting with non-business owners can be challenging due to differences in experiences, perspectives, and priorities. However, by approaching conversations with empathy, adapting your communication style, and finding common ground, it is possible to bridge the gap and build meaningful relationships. While it is tempting to surround yourself only with fellow business owners, it is important to embrace diversity and appreciate the value that different perspectives can bring.

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Barbara Turner

a year ago

Meh, easy solutions: Don't talk about your work/career with friends, neighbors, etc. It's usually seen as a boring topic anyhow. Find something else to talk about. If the subject turns to your job/career and they ask questions about it, tell them very minimal info. If they are interested to hear more, they will continue to ask questions.

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Darrell Young

a year ago

Just to share my experience, maybe it will help... I'm an accountant first and ecom owner second. No one understands what I do in accounting no matter how I explain it, everyone just thinks I do taxes. So over the years I've stopped talking about it in any detail. It's just like yeah I do work on the computer and have a boss, etc. Everyone thinks my ecom is a cute hobby so it's never talked about seriously, and I don't find the point in convincing people otherwise. Especially with certain relatives who don't under managing money. They'd just hear my top line revenue and think I was loaded ( but I only take home 5-10% of our net!). My wife is an influencer who does well but again everyone thinks it's a cute hobby or somehow not a real job. So honestly we both just kind of gloss over out jobs. We are both super into the entrepreneurial aspect so we bother each other like crazy with ideas and questions, so that's our outlet for it, not our family and friends.

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Tabatha Johns

a year ago

Probably your fault here- They probably do get it but the way you’re talking makes it sound like you speak too much about it. “This stuff changes your DNA” find personality traits that aren’t related to your business It’s hard especially when work is addicting, successful, you’re putting all your heart into it, but just find something else to talk about. No one wants to hear for hours about how successful you are except for you. That’s not how to connect with people

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Randy Gregory

a year ago

I go to dinner with this guy just to hear him brag about his success? Sheesh. (Might be how that comes across)

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John Delarosa

a year ago

Oh, man. The puzzled expressions you’re describing as appearing intimidated may actually be an effect of the bewilderment that is, “Why on earth is this guy still talking about this? I avoid business talk with anyone not positioned in a similar or adjacent field unless there’s inquiry, and if there is I keep it brief af. The point is, they don’t care. And if they don’t understand, they’re not really impressed. Keep in mind the most talented people in business have an incredibly diverse set of observations and knowledge about the world around them to discuss. It’s often what gives them the strategic point of view to be as successful as they are. And they’ll rarely talk shop because it’s most often not mutually interesting to their company. Nevertheless, get involved with your local business community. They all have venues for this - startup organization, chambers, you name it. There should be no shortage of people to engage with who have mutual interest.

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