Breakups, especially when they're with someone you truly care about, can be really difficult and leave you feeling uncertain about what to do next. Your situation is further complicated by the emotional investment you’ve already made, and it’s understandable that you're holding on to the hope of rekindling things.

Here’s a breakdown of steps you can consider to improve your chances, while also taking care of yourself:

1. Respect Her Boundaries

You’ve already been given an important piece of information—she has asked for space and told you she’ll reach out when she's ready. While it’s painful, respecting her request is crucial. It shows that you care about her well-being and are willing to give her the room to process things in her own time. Any attempts to push for reconciliation while she’s made it clear she needs space may push her further away, even if your intentions are to repair things.

2. Reflect on the Relationship and Your Own Actions

You mentioned being “too intense and clingy,” and this feedback is worth considering. Take some time to reflect on why you might have come across this way. Was it due to your strong feelings for her, or was there something deeper at play (e.g., fear of abandonment, insecurity)? Self-awareness can help you grow, and it may improve how you approach future relationships—whether with her or someone else. Understanding why she felt these boundaries were overstepped can help you avoid repeating the same mistakes if there’s a chance to reconnect.

3. Work on Personal Growth

Sometimes the best way to improve the chances of rekindling a relationship is by focusing on yourself in the interim. This doesn’t just mean trying to change who you are for her, but rather improving yourself for your own well-being. Whether it’s focusing on your passions, developing new hobbies, improving communication skills, or building self-confidence—investing in yourself can make you a more attractive partner, not just in this relationship, but in any future one. It will also show her that you are capable of growth and maturity, which may influence her view of the situation.

4. Give Her the Time and Space She Needs

I know this is tough, but sometimes letting go for a bit and allowing time to pass is one of the most effective ways to see if feelings can be rekindled. Often, when people are under emotional pressure, they need time to reflect and recalibrate. Continuing to be in each other’s lives (like hanging out) might be clouding both of your emotions and delaying the healing process. Let her take the lead when she’s ready to engage again.

5. Avoid Clinging to False Hopes

I understand that astrology readings have provided you with a sense of hope, but it's important to stay grounded. While astrology and other external sources may provide comfort, they shouldn't guide your decisions or actions. Hope is great, but it should be balanced with reality. It’s possible she may not come back, and in that case, it’s important to accept and move forward with the knowledge that you've learned from the relationship. If she does reach out, you’ll be in a better position to engage with her from a place of strength rather than desperation.

6. Communicate Your Feelings (When the Time is Right)

When she’s ready to talk, it might be a good idea to communicate your feelings honestly and maturely. Let her know that you value her, the connection you shared, and that you’ve reflected on the things that went wrong. Be clear about your intentions and your desire to try again, but also make sure you give her the freedom to express what she needs. It’s important that any reconciliation is built on mutual understanding and respect for boundaries, not just an attempt to “win” her back.

7. Prepare for All Outcomes

Be emotionally prepared for the possibility that she may not want to get back together. It’s hard, especially when it feels like there’s a strong connection and you’ve shared deep feelings, but sometimes people grow in different directions. Recognize that, even if she doesn’t come back, you can still move forward in a healthy way and find happiness again—either with her or with someone else in the future. Your first love is meaningful, but it doesn’t define your entire romantic future.

Conclusion:

Your feelings are valid, and it’s clear that you truly care about her. However, for the best chance of rekindling things, it's essential to respect her space, work on yourself, and wait for the right time to reconnect—if that's what she wants. Stay grounded, be patient, and focus on self-growth. Whether or not she comes back, remember that you deserve a relationship built on mutual respect, communication, and shared values. If it's meant to be, it will happen, but in the meantime, you’ll be in a better place to handle the situation with maturity and clarity.