I met a girl at a bouldering gym recently, and we hit it off during our conversation. She mentioned that we have a lot in common, and I agreed. After chatting, she asked for my Instagram, and we started texting. We tried to set up a time to meet, but due to the holidays, it took us about two months to find a suitable time. We finally planned to meet yesterday at the bouldering gym, but she had some friends with her. Despite that, we got along well, and our similar sense of humor really shone through. However, I’m still unsure if she’s interested in me romantically. I noticed her profile on FEELD and sent her a message saying, "Fancy seeing you here!" I’m not sure if she’s seen it yet. Later, I texted her to see if she was free next week, and she replied that she could do Friday. I suggested going to the redwood forest with my dog, and she seemed excited, saying she would love to join. Unfortunately, she later messaged me saying she had other plans and wouldn’t be able to make it. She mentioned that she’d see me at the bouldering gym in the next couple of weeks. I responded that it was unfortunate and asked if she was free on another day. She replied that she was unsure at the moment but would let me know. Now, I’m wondering what my next step should be. How should I follow up with her? Should I bring up her FEELD profile again?

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I met a girl at a bouldering gym recently, and we hit it off during our conversation. She mentioned that we have a lot in common, and I agreed. After chatting, she asked for my Instagram, and we started texting. We tried to set up a time to meet, but due to the holidays, it took us about two months to find a suitable time. We finally planned to meet yesterday at the bouldering gym, but she had some friends with her. Despite that, we got along well, and our similar sense of humor really shone through. However, I’m still unsure if she’s interested in me romantically. I noticed her profile on FEELD and sent her a message saying, "Fancy seeing you here!" I’m not sure if she’s seen it yet. Later, I texted her to see if she was free next week, and she replied that she could do Friday. I suggested going to the redwood forest with my dog, and she seemed excited, saying she would love to join. Unfortunately, she later messaged me saying she had other plans and wouldn’t be able to make it. She mentioned that she’d see me at the bouldering gym in the next couple of weeks. I responded that it was unfortunate and asked if she was free on another day. She replied that she was unsure at the moment but would let me know. Now, I’m wondering what my next step should be. How should I follow up with her? Should I bring up her FEELD profile again?

a month ago

It sounds like you’ve made some great progress in getting to know this girl! Here are some steps you can take moving forward to keep the momentum going and hopefully gauge her interest:

1. Give Her Space

Since she mentioned she has other plans and is unsure about her availability, it's important not to overwhelm her with messages. Giving her space shows respect for her schedule and may make her more inclined to reach out when she has the time.

2. Maintain Light and Casual Communication

In the meantime, you can keep the conversation light and casual. You might send a message like:

"Hey! Just wanted to check in and see how your week is going. Hope you’re having a great day!"

3. Gauge Her Interest

If she responds positively and engages in the conversation, it could be a good sign that she’s interested. If she seems less enthusiastic or takes a long time to respond, it might indicate she’s busy or not as invested at the moment.

4. Avoid Mentioning the FEELD Profile Directly

While it might be tempting to bring up her profile on FEELD, it could come off as intrusive or might make her uncomfortable. Instead, you could wait for her to bring it up if she chooses to. If you do feel the need to mention it, say something light-hearted like:

"I saw you on FEELD, and it made me smile! We should totally climb together sometime."

5. Suggest Future Plans

Since she expressed interest in your plans but couldn’t make it, you might suggest another casual outing at a later date. For example:

"No worries about Friday! How about we plan for another day? Maybe a casual hike or a coffee after climbing next time?"

6. Stay Engaged on Social Media

Continue to engage with her on Instagram or other platforms. Like her posts or respond to her stories occasionally to keep the connection alive without being too pushy.

7. Be Patient

Lastly, patience is key. Building a connection takes time, and it’s important to let things develop naturally. If she is genuinely interested, she will find the time to meet up again.

In summary, focus on maintaining a light and casual conversation, suggest future plans without pressure, and give her space to respond when she can. Good luck!

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