Merrilyn Nydia2 months agoI’m in love with a married man ? What should i do ? question I’m in love with this guy and i’m not sure if i should keep pursuing him or let him go so i made a pros and cons list about him. He has a lot of bad qualities but also a lot of good qualities so I’m conflicted. Am i being delusion for thinking i can fix him and get him to change for me. Should i let him go or continue on with him ? Pros : ✅ he’s kind he’s loving he has lots of money and can provide a comfortable lifestyle for me i love him he’s motivated he’s driven he takes care of the ones he loves - he’s super attractive i really love him and i think he might be my soulmate when he loves he loves hard he’s gone through a lot of bad things in his life time so this can explain why he acts out Cons : 🚫 He’s married He’s a serial cheater and has cheated on every girl he’s been with ( he’s even gone as far as to bring his mistresses in his house and sleep with them while his wife is in the basement with the kids ) he openly cheats (his wife knows about it and doesn’t say anything to him about it ) he has multiple different women daily he has multiple cases of Domestic violence and is know for abusing his gfs He has herpes He has 12 children with 9 different women and he’s only 25 He has a lot of issues due to his upbringing we have a big age gap8