Skyler Kassia2 months agoI'm a 23-year-old woman, and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend, who is also 23, for six years. We started dating in high school, and recently, he has been expressing a desire to move in together and talk about engagement. We live just ten minutes apart, so there hasn’t been an urgency to take that step until now. Lately, I’ve been feeling uncertain about our future. As he gets more serious about our relationship, I find myself pulling away. It's been over a month since we’ve been intimate, which is unusual for us, and I’ve started to notice small issues that didn’t bother me before. I have borderline personality disorder (BPD) and am currently on a waitlist for therapy, which might be contributing to my commitment issues. I care deeply for him and enjoy our time together, but I’m starting to wonder if my feelings have shifted to more of a platonic nature. I find it difficult to engage in typical couple activities, and I know he still loves me very much. The thought of hurting him is weighing heavily on my mind. I feel lost and confused, and I can't help but feel guilty for not fully appreciating what I have and the love he offers. In short, I'm concerned that I might be falling out of love with my boyfriend, and I’m unsure how to address this situation.406
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