Dior Douglas2 months agoI'm an 18-year-old guy, and the girl I've been talking to is also 18. We've known each other for about two years, and we've been seriously connecting for the past three months. Interestingly, before these three months, we didn't get along at all; we actually disliked each other. Now, she’s in my class, and since early October, we’ve developed a special bond. I've been really invested in this relationship—I’ve bought her several gifts, I always pay for our meals, and we often spend time together after school, hanging out in my car for a couple of hours. However, lately, I’ve started to feel differently. I can’t shake off this nagging feeling inside me that makes me compare her emotional ups and downs, which is frustrating. I genuinely want to love her and keep her in my life, but I feel like I’m struggling to do so. Our communication has also changed; we used to call and text constantly, but now it’s very minimal. I shared my feelings with her, and she suggested that I take some time to figure things out and focus on my mental health. I’m at a loss about what to do next. I work two jobs, hit the gym five times a week, play video games, and attend school four days a week. Sometimes, I just don’t have the energy to express affection like I used to, whether it’s calling her "beautiful" or saying "I love you." I could really use some guidance on how to navigate this situation. What’s the best course of action for me?9
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