Dale Romy2 months agoI’m reaching out because I’m in a bit of a tough situation. My fiancée and I recently discovered that she’s four months pregnant. It was an unplanned surprise, but we both wanted kids eventually, and the option of abortion was never on the table for us. Here’s the thing: my fiancée is quite unpredictable and has a tendency to be reckless. When we first met, I found her spontaneity exciting and adventurous. However, now that she’s pregnant, I’m starting to worry about her impulsive nature. Just recently, she mentioned wanting to fly somewhere next week to go bungee jumping. This is just one example of her erratic decision-making. She has a flexible job that allows her to make last-minute travel plans, and she often does—without involving me in the decision. Unless we have a planned date, she tends to make spontaneous choices, sometimes even expressing interest in things like getting a chainsaw license out of the blue. I’ve tried talking to her about my concerns, but she insists that she doesn’t want to change who she is. I’m feeling lost about how to navigate this situation and ensure the safety of both her and our unborn child. Any advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!9
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