Eleanor Morley2 months agoDo you ever feel any remorse for your actions? Do you ever consider the pain you might be causing another woman? Why don’t you respect other women, especially if you know the man you’re involved with is married? Have you thought about the likely outcome of your relationship? If he cheated to be with you, isn’t it possible he’d cheat on you too? Do you feel any satisfaction in being part of breaking up a family? Personally, I’d never want to be the villain in someone else’s story. But hey, congratulations to both of you—leaving your spouses for each other is rare, so I suppose that’s something. I’ve decided to be the bigger and better person. I won’t let my child hate you, even if you ever have the chance to meet her. She won’t have to look at you and think, “You’re the reason my parents aren’t together.” The pain I feel is unbearable, but I’m choosing to protect her from that. Let me make one thing clear: it doesn’t matter what state my marriage was in when you got involved—because we were still married. My advice? Stop inserting yourself into other people’s marriages or accepting invitations from married men.18