Prosper Dream2 months agoI (22M) Don’t Feel Like My Girlfriend (22F) Finds Me Attractive—What Should I Do? My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now, and we have a serious relationship. We’ve talked about our future, possibly getting engaged, and all the typical milestones. However, over the past couple of months, I’ve noticed a shift in our physical intimacy, and it’s really been bothering me. Sexual attraction is an important part of our relationship for me, and recently, I feel like she’s not as interested in being sexually active as she once was. I’ve tried bringing it up a few times, but nothing seems to change. While I generally consider myself a secure guy, this has started to affect how I feel about myself. When she doesn’t seem interested in kissing or being physical with me, I start to feel like I’m “ugly” or not attractive. I know it sounds silly because I don’t usually care what others think about my appearance, but when it comes to her, I care deeply. She’s the person I’m closest to, and her opinion matters more than anyone else’s. I consider myself above average in looks, and I try to take care of myself, so when she doesn't seem interested in initiating anything physical, it really hurts. I feel like I’m not able to turn her on in the same way she does for me. Here’s what frustrates me the most: whenever she initiates intimacy, I’m all in, and I’m ready. But when I try to make the first move, she rejects me almost 90% of the time. It feels unfair that when she takes the lead, I get in the mood easily, but when I try, I feel shut down. I just want to feel wanted and desired by her again, and I’m struggling with how to handle this. I’ve brought it up a few times already, but nothing changes. What should I do?113
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