Willie Izaiah2 months agoI spent New Year's with someone new, and you obviously saw that snap story that was meant for only Barbara. I don’t know what this message will make you feel like, but I wanted to share my feelings, just from my perspective. I went to spend New Year's with the guy I met online, and it was nice. He was polite, respectful, and didn’t overstep my boundaries. But the whole time, I kept wishing it was you. I kept wishing our glances and conversations were the way they used to be. I was wishing you would tell me goodnight stories, have pillow talk, and pick my brain like we used to. I never imagined we’d end up here. I never thought we’d crash and burn like this, and I didn’t think it would hurt this much. It’s so disappointing to see how things have turned out, especially after I started my new job. That was the hardest part for me in this whole thing. I’m not asking for a second chance or anything, I just wanted to share how I feel. I’m really disappointed that it wasn’t you I was with.112
Willie Izaiah2 months agoMy 37 F wife sent me 42 M this text message. What should I do with it My separated? Wife sent me this text message. We have been together for 12 years and married for 6. Our relationship has been a mess for a few years. Several cases of emotional cheating honestly by both of us over the years. Currently we live in the same house but don't talk, share a bed, or have any real relationship. She loves to silent treatment me when we fight, and I do it right back. Basically a war of who can ignore the other one the longest. You could say we are essentially separated but living in the same house. I knew she was on dating websites and talking to other men. I wasn't ok with it, but wasn't going to beg for her attention. Then this happened. She lied about where she was going on new years, and my step daughter sent me the referenced Snapchat story. Step daughter was Angry! Honestly, the worst part is that my kids know. Here is the text message: I spent new years with someone new, and you obviously seen that snap story that was meant for only Barbara. I don’t know what this message will make you feel like but I wanted to share my feelings, Just from my perspective. I went to spend new years with the guy I met from online, it was great, he was nice and polite and never over stepped my boundaries. The entire time, every conversation, every question, every eye to eye glance I was wishing it was you, I was wishing our glances, and conversation were good again. Wishing you would tell me goodnight stories and have pillow talk and pick my brain, and let me pick yours. 11/ 12 however many years ago it’s been I would’ve never thought we would’ve crashed and burned and hurt so badly. It’s so disappointing to see and feel everything we’ve been since I started my new position , That was my personal hardest, and the toughest part of us for me. I’m not asking for second chances, for anything else just really disappointed it wasn’t you I am about to go home, I got this message while golfing with my son. I don't know what to even say to this message. What do y'all think?10