Tyron Callan2 months agoI (28M) have been seeing this girl (24F) for almost two months now, and I really like her. We get along great, and there haven't been any major red flags — everything seems to be clicking between us. The issue is, she lives with roommates, a married couple in their 30s and 40s, which has started to make me feel uneasy. When we first started talking, I made a few jokes about her being careful around the husband since she’s very attractive. But then, during the first week of us seeing each other, something happened that felt off. The husband got drunk one night and picked up her phone while we were FaceTiming. He started asking me questions, almost like he was vetting me, but he was still polite. The wife was a little colder, which felt odd but not immediately concerning. A week ago, she admitted something that has been really bothering me. She told me that she had slept with the couple multiple times over the course of several months. Apparently, it all started when she and her ex used to have threesomes with them, but after the breakup, she continued sleeping with them. She said that ended in August, though I’m not sure I believe that timeline. She even admitted that she was once in love with the husband but now regrets it, saying she was just "experimenting." I’m struggling to wrap my head around the whole situation. What bothers me the most is that she still lives with them, and she insists they haven’t slept together since August. I’m choosing to believe her, but something about it doesn’t sit right with me. I feel like there’s more to the story than she’s letting on, and I’m having a hard time shaking my suspicions. Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice on how to approach this moving forward? I really like her, but I’m not sure how to navigate all of this and whether I should trust her completely.2594
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