Rubye Gertrude2 months agoI'm not sure if this post will be too vague, but I'm seeking advice from people who understand just how complicated marriage can be. When my husband and I got married, we were deeply in love, like most couples are at the beginning. However, over the course of our four-year marriage, we’ve had some significant disagreements, as most couples do, and a lot of resentment has built up on both sides. When we couldn’t seem to find common ground, we decided to separate for a while to gain some perspective on our own. It’s been six months now, and a big part of me wants to try and make it work. But another part of me is starting to feel like he really doesn’t like me anymore. Whenever I ask him for advice, I get snarky responses. When I ask for clarification, I get sarcasm. I’ve tried to remind him that I’m not attacking him, but it just makes him more defensive. I’m at a loss for what to do or how to approach him at this point, and I’m starting to wonder if he ever actually enjoyed my company. No matter what version of myself I try to show, the only reaction I seem to get is mild to extreme annoyance from him.3588