Kore Theo2 months agoI (29M) have been dating my girlfriend (27F) for about six months. Overall, things have been smooth, and we haven’t had any major issues. Our personalities are pretty opposite—I'm more laid-back, while she’s more strict and decisive. She comes from a wealthy family and works for their business, which she’s mentioned has affected her mindset. She works hard to be taken seriously due to her age and her connection to the family company. She’s always had this need for control over decisions, even small ones like picking a place to eat, and she tends to get her way. This hasn’t really bothered me much until recently when I discovered something unsettling. The other night, she left her laptop open when she went to the bathroom. I didn’t have any particular reason to snoop, but out of curiosity, I started looking around. To my surprise, I found a folder titled "Blackmail" on her laptop. Inside, there were files on various people, from business partners to family members and even friends. There were screenshots of her uncle having a sexting session, evidence of a man cheating on his wife, and old tweets of her friends. I’m not sure how she got this information, but it was clear that she had been collecting personal and sensitive details on people. What really worried me was a folder that appeared to have my initials on it. I couldn’t open it before she came back, but it made me anxious. I started wondering if she had photos of me or personal information that I didn’t know about, and I couldn’t shake the thought of how embarrassing that would be if it were true. I’ve never had any issues with her before, but now I’m genuinely concerned. Maybe I’m just being paranoid, but I don’t know what to make of this situation. Should I confront her about this, or should I just let it go and keep dating her? The whole thing is making me uneasy.131
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