Kristeen Maxene2 months agoParaphrased Message: I'm unsure about having kids. While I’m not against the idea, my husband and parents want it, so it feels logical that we might try someday. However, I have several concerns. PCOS and Pregnancy: I have PCOS, which makes conception challenging, but I believe pregnancy itself could be a positive experience. I trust I’d be able to care for myself and receive adequate support. Fear of Childbirth: I’ve never had surgery, so the idea of giving birth terrifies me—whether it’s natural or cesarean. I get dizzy when I see blood (except for menstrual blood), and knowing stitches might be involved makes it harder to imagine. Doubts About Postpartum Support: My biggest worry is whether my husband can truly support me during recovery. In the past, when I’ve been sick, I’ve always handled everything myself—buying medicine, taking care of myself, and resting. Even though we’ve been together for over five years before marriage, I also didn’t help him when he was ill because he lived with his mother and had her support. I’m conflicted. If I discuss this with my husband, I know he’ll promise to help, but I’m not sure I can fully trust him to follow through. I’ve always relied on myself as a backup plan, but childbirth is something I can’t handle alone, and I’m scared of being vulnerable. TL;DR: I’m unsure about kids. While my husband seems ready, I doubt his ability to help during postpartum recovery, and I fear childbirth. How can I resolve these concerns?249
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