Varvara Julijana2 months agoI (20F) have been avoiding my girlfriend (23F) for the past few days, and I'm not sure what to do. She previously had a toxic relationship with an ex-boyfriend, and I knew their breakup was messy, with them splitting up multiple times. However, I didn't expect her to admit that, even after they broke up, she would still send nudes to him when they were supposedly "just friends." The issue isn't that she sent the nudes, but that she knew he was only using her for them, and she still kept doing it. I feel kind of shaken by this. It’s not that I wanted to see her naked for any reason (I’m asexual, and so is she), but it feels strange to know she shared that level of intimacy with him, especially when I’ve never seen her naked, and we tend to avoid changing in front of each other. I'm confused as to why she would allow herself to be treated like that, and I feel disappointed and a little disgusted by it all. I haven’t been able to talk to her about it, even though I think she knows why I’ve been distant. I'm just trying to process everything, but I don’t know how to move forward from here. What should I do?149
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