Dana Zora2 months agooday, my boyfriend texted me letting me know that he’d be going to Paris with his best friend, his best friend’s girlfriend, and another mutual friend. I got upset because we had previously talked about going to Paris together, and he’d mentioned how romantic it would be for us to go for his first time there. While nothing was set in stone, I had hoped we would make plans for this year or next. When I expressed my disappointment, he told me that since nothing was confirmed, it wasn’t a big deal. He said he had already discussed going with his friends before and that I just didn’t know about it. I asked him if he was planning to invite me, and he said it would be weird, even though his best friend is bringing his girlfriend. He told me that he’s known her for a long time and that she’s also his friend now, so it makes sense for her to come. On the other hand, he’s only met the mutual friend coming with them twice, but that didn’t matter. He also mentioned that the trip is still months away, and I could meet her before then if needed. He said I was being irrational about the whole situation. I just feel like I have a lot of reasons to be upset, but he doesn’t seem to see it that way. Am I overreacting, or is my frustration valid?1151
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