Mitko Boris2 months agoI (25M) have been dating my girlfriend (30F) for a couple of months, and while things are generally going great, I’m struggling with feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, and jealousy. We met at work and instantly connected. She’s an amazing woman—beautiful, successful, and well put-together—and I feel so lucky to be with her. The problem is, I can’t shake the feeling that she’s "out of my league" in many ways, especially when it comes to her looks, her determination (she’s very into fitness and health), and how accomplished she is. I know I’m doing well for my age, but I can’t help but feel like her previous partners were probably more attractive and more successful than I am. I know this is all in my head, but it’s hard to avoid these thoughts. Recently, we went out with her friends to celebrate her birthday, and I saw her getting a lot of attention from other guys—guys I perceived to be more attractive than me. She introduced me as her boyfriend to everyone who came up to her, and whenever1229
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