Brock Hannah2 months agoI’m a 27-year-old man, and I’ve been married to my 22-year-old wife for just over six months. A little over a week ago, she told me she wants a divorce. Since then, she’s mostly been staying at her friend’s place at night and only coming back to the house a little during the day. So far, she’s stayed in our home only three nights out of all of those. The first night, I decided to sleep on the couch. I woke up to find her under the same blanket, with her legs on top of me. I didn’t say anything. The second time, I was in bed, and she came home really late, crawled into bed, and fell asleep next to me, touching me. Then last night, she fell asleep in the bed again. She fell asleep first while I was watching TV, then scooted up to me as if to cuddle. I didn’t think much of it, so I cuddled back and fell asleep. This morning, I woke up and asked her why, if she wants a divorce, she’s still sleeping with me. I told her it’s giving me mixed signals. She responded that I’m the one who cuddled up to her, and that I should have told her to sleep elsewhere if I didn’t want to give off mixed signals. She also kissed and hugged me. Without these signals, I would think the only reason she’s still here is because she’s jobless and has nowhere else to go. But part of me feels like she’s trickling me some affection or intimacy (I consider sleeping together without sex to be intimate) to keep me from telling her to leave. I’m posting for advice. I’m mentally preparing myself for things to end, but these mixed signals are really confusing me.2969
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