Rafe Frannie2 months agoI (23M) have been in a relationship with my girlfriend (21F) for 7 years, starting when I was 16 and she was 14. For most of our relationship, we had long-distance issues even though we lived just a few kilometers apart. Despite asking to meet up several times, she didn’t want to, citing her parents as a reason. The last time we saw each other was November 2023. In October 2024, I surprised her at her work because I missed her and wanted to give her a gift. She reacted by leaving me alone, getting in her car without saying a word, and driving off. This broke me, and after that, she cut contact, saying a lot of hurtful things to me. A month later, she apologized and told me to forget everything. Since then, starting December 4th, her behavior has become cold. She doesn't tell me about her day, doesn’t ask about mine, and only messages me late in the afternoon. When I try to express my feelings, she responds defensively, telling me that I should “endure it” and that I need to be mature and not cry. It’s really hurtful, and I’m feeling lost. I’m considering ending the relationship because I can’t handle her behavior, but I also don’t want to leave her. Questions: She’s been treating me poorly and has said hurtful things, but I’ve ignored many red flags. What should I do now? How long should I endure this kind of treatment?1619
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