Josif Nevena2 months agoI [26M] recently discovered something troubling about my girlfriend [25F] of four years. Our relationship has generally been strong, and I was even contemplating proposing soon. However, I stumbled upon a situation that has left me feeling confused and hurt. While using my phone, I noticed she was signed into her Google Drive. Out of curiosity, I opened it and found a folder containing her nudes. This was surprising since it’s not something she typically does. As I looked a bit deeper, I found out that she had been communicating with a guy on Facebook who was interested in buying her used panties. I was aware of this part because she had mentioned it to me, and I thought it was harmless since she had some old pairs we were planning to throw away anyway. The offer of $50 per pair seemed like easy money. However, what I didn’t know was that this guy also requested pictures of her wearing the panties, along with nudes, and she ended up sending him a folder from her Google Drive in exchange for money. I’ve made it clear in the past that selling explicit content is a boundary for me, and I feel deeply betrayed by her actions, especially since this was something I had explicitly expressed discomfort about. Now I’m left feeling confused and upset. I’m questioning whether this is something that could lead to a breakup. What should I do?1969