Sidony Gwen2 months agoMy girlfriend (23F) has a lot of guy friends, and I (20M) get along with most of them. However, there's one guy friend (24M) that I don't like, even though he’s in a relationship with his current girlfriend (22F). My girlfriend told me that she used to have a crush on him before we met, but once he got together with his girlfriend, those feelings went away and she lost all romantic interest in him. Even though she shows no signs of disloyalty, I can't shake the feeling of jealousy and resentment toward him. My girlfriend doesn’t trust women much, so she gets along better with guys, which I understand because I have a similar experience. In my previous relationship, I was hurt by a lot of betrayal, including cheating, and it’s left me with trust issues. But my current girlfriend has been nothing but loyal to me, and still, I can't seem to get past the fact that she once had a crush on this guy, even though she says those feelings are long gone. I avoid talking to him, and I think my girlfriend has noticed because she reassures me that the crush is over and that she loves me. I really want to stop feeling this way and eventually get along with him, especially since I’d like to be friends with all her friends. It feels childish to feel like this, but I just can't help it. How can I stop feeling this way and try to be friendly with him? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!142
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