Danial Harun2 months agoI (25M) recently asked out a waitress (24F) that I’ve been interested in for a while. We’ve both been busy, so it’s taken some time to set up a date, but we’ve been texting regularly, trying to find a time that works. Recently, I went out to a bar with my best friend and his girlfriend, who brought along her cousin (26F) with the idea of setting us up. Even though I wasn’t interested because I’ve had my eye on the waitress, his girlfriend kept trying to make it happen. Toward the end of the night, while my friend’s girlfriend was drunk, she shouted, “Did you get her number yet?!” to me. Feeling a bit awkward and pressured, I agreed to take the cousin’s number, but later on, I ended up texting her and rejecting the idea of pursuing anything further. The issue is, a few of the waitress’s coworkers were nearby when this happened, so I’m worried they might have told her about it. Now, it’s been over 36 hours since we last texted, and she hasn’t followed through with the message she said she would send. Normally, we text about twice a day, so the silence is making me uneasy. I’m thinking it might be best to reach out and explain the situation briefly to clear the air, or should I just keep it casual and ask if she’s gotten her schedule for the week instead? What’s the best move here?138
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