Rita Joss2 months agoMy husband and I recently had an argument, and now he's decided to delay the payment for our baby’s daycare fees as a way to punish me. It’s not the first time he’s used our disagreements as a way to get back at me, but this feels particularly hurtful. I don’t understand why he’s involving our baby in this situation, and it’s leaving me feeling devastated. It feels like he’s using our child to hurt me, and I’m questioning if this behavior could be considered emotional abuse. To make things worse, in our last argument, he even turned on the lights and started shouting to wake the baby up, knowing it would disrupt my sleep. It feels like he’s deliberately trying to make me suffer, and it’s hard for me to handle. Has anyone experienced something similar? How do you handle situations like this without making things worse? I’d really appreciate any advice or insights.139