Cherice Cyndia month agoI’m absolutely heartbroken over a guy I never even dated. Here's the situation: I met him through a mutual friend, and we started chatting on Snapchat and texting a lot. For nearly 3 months, there seemed to be mutual interest, and it was expressed. However, he never made the effort to ask me out. I didn’t wait around passively, but I did put in effort without being clingy. Three weeks ago, I realized he probably wasn’t going to ask me out, and even if he did later, I wasn't okay with someone taking that long to decide if they wanted me. So, I blocked him and cut contact. He never did anything wrong or had any major red flags, so it's not like I can trash him to make myself feel better. Even though I know I should be moving on, I still cry almost every night. I had real feelings for him, and it hurts because I don’t fall for people very often. I find myself daydreaming about the "what ifs" and wondering if he’ll realize what he lost and come back. How do I get over someone I never even officially dated? I know I’m more than this guy, but it’s hard to turn off my feelings. I had a really tough breakup from a 2-year relationship a year ago, and I was the one who got dumped. I don’t have much experience in being the “dumper” in this situation, and I feel truly sad about it.141
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