Arn Lanforda month agoSince we got married in August, this will be our first birthday together as a married couple. I really cherished the way we spent my birthday, just the two of us. You surprised me with a cake, a banner, and a sweet card, and it meant so much to me. I want to make your birthday just as special, so I’ve planned a surprise for you. I’ve got flowers, your favorite cake, and a gift I know you’ve wanted for a while. I also got a beautiful wooden card where I’ll write you a love letter. I want to make sure you feel truly loved and celebrated. Last night, you mentioned your friends asked if you wanted to go to dinner and the bar like they used to, and I understand that you’d like to spend time with them. I suggested that we could still celebrate just the two of us on Saturday with a movie and dinner, but I also want to respect your wishes. I don’t want to make your birthday about me, especially since it’s your special day, and I want you to enjoy it in your own way. This morning, I told you that I want you to have a wonderful birthday, and you should spend it however feels best for you. But I also shared that I was feeling a bit sad about not being able to celebrate together on your actual birthday. When you said you didn’t plan to do anything for your birthday and might celebrate next weekend instead, it made me feel a little lost, and I just want to make sure I’m supporting you in the way you need. I don’t want to make this about me at all. I just want you to feel special and loved. Please let me know how you’d like to spend the day, and I’ll respect whatever choice you make. I care deeply about you, and your happiness is my priority.1990
Arn LanfordArn Lanford