Ralph Glorya month agoI (M19) have been dating my girlfriend (F18) for about 4 months, though we've been romantically involved for around 8 months. It took us a while to make things official because she said she wanted “freedom.” Since this was my first relationship, I patiently waited for her, giving her all my effort and support throughout this time. Recently, I’ve moved far away for a while, and we’re doing long-distance for the next two months. For the past couple of weeks, I’ve noticed that she gets angry over small things. At first, it was understandable, but now it feels like anything can set her off. For example, earlier today we were playing Minecraft, and she mentioned she might burn herself in some lava. A few moments later, I heard her scream, so I quickly teleported her to me (I had done it a few times already that day). She got upset and said I took her away from where she was. I offered to take her back to her spot, but she told me to go away and that she just wanted to be somewhere else. I tried to explain that I wanted to play with her, but she snapped at me, saying I was whining and begging for attention, using a few curse words. This really upset me, as I’ve told her before how much it bothers me when she uses that language. The situation escalated further when I accidentally said something in a tone she didn’t like. She threatened to block me and leave, which made me feel terrible. I stayed silent because I didn’t know how to respond, and she kept pushing me, saying I needed to answer her, all while cursing. Eventually, she went to bed, and I was left feeling awful. The next morning, she texted me saying, “Don’t make problems out of nothing,” which left me feeling even more confused. I really care about her, and she’s generally such a sweet person, but these frequent arguments and her emotional outbursts are making me feel terrible. I’m struggling to understand why this keeps happening and how to approach her with my concerns without making things worse. I don’t want to just give up on the relationship, but I feel like I’m walking on eggshells, unsure of how to fix this.130
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