Paislee Rudya month ago"I’ve been with my partner for two years now, and I've always loved him deeply, regardless of any changes in his appearance. Over time, I’ve noticed that he’s gained weight, but I never really focused on it because I genuinely adore him, and to me, he's just as attractive. However, recently, I came across old photos of him from when we first met, and it made me realize how much his appearance has changed. In the photos, he looks so fit and had a striking jawline, and I felt a strong sense of attraction toward that version of him. It’s not that I love him any less now, but seeing those pictures made me reflect on how much he’s changed physically, and it’s been on my mind ever since. I feel conflicted because I don't want him to feel bad about the changes or feel self-conscious, but I also can't ignore how seeing those old photos made me feel. I really want to share this with him but I’m not sure how to do it without hurting his feelings or making him feel bad about himself. I love him as he is, but I also want to be honest with my feelings. How can I approach this conversation in a way that’s respectful and sensitive?"126
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