Roderick Ronalda month agoI (24m) recently got back together with my girlfriend (20f), and we both agreed to take things slow. I have deep feelings for her; she possesses so many wonderful qualities, and I hold a lot of respect for her as a person. She broke up with me two weeks ago because she felt anxious and unloved in our relationship. After spending Christmas and New Year apart with limited communication, we met today, and seeing her again reignited all the love I have for her. Honestly, she looked like an angel. At first, we spent about 10-15 minutes laughing, joking, and catching up on each other’s lives before addressing the difficult issues that had led to our breakup. We shared laughter, tears, and comforted one another. She expressed that she’s never felt this way about anyone before and believes we are meant to be together. However, she also shared her doubts, saying she doesn’t believe people can change and fears the same issues that caused our breakup will resurface. I reassured her that while some people may not change, others can use experiences like ours as a catalyst for growth. She listened and agreed to take things slow. We ended the evening on a positive note with hugs and kisses. However, after I got home, she seemed a bit distant. I understand that she might need time to process her emotions, so I let her know I’m here if she wants to talk about anything else. Now, I’m wondering how to approach this situation. I genuinely want to change my past behaviors, and I love her deeply. My goal is to help her feel secure in her decision to get back together with me. Thank you for your guidance.137
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