Jaylah Pearlea month agoMy husband's older sister is a constant source of frustration. She always drags him into her projects, even asking him to lie to me and hide what they're doing together. I value openness in our relationship, but I can't stand the lack of transparency, especially from my husband. We both don’t agree with the way she portrays her life on social media, and at one point, she started spamming me with irrelevant messages. Eventually, I decided to unfollow her, which led to her calling me nonstop. I had 38 missed calls from her and then received threats saying, “You’ll regret it if you don’t follow me back.” That was the last straw, so I blocked her. However, she didn’t stop there—she began harassing my husband and threatening both of us. She’s 38 years old and a mother of three, but her behavior is beyond immature, and I honestly think she needs professional help. Now, I’ve found out that I’m pregnant, and this whole situation is weighing on me even more. I’m working hard and have a successful career, but my husband hasn’t been working. He’s been influenced by his sister to stay at home and enjoy the perks of being married to me. Over the last few weeks, I’ve started to resent him so much. He spends his days playing games on his phone or wasting time on social media. He quit his job two years ago to start his own business, but all he’s done is burn through his savings. Whenever I try to have a serious conversation about this, he gets angry, yells, and then walks away to cool off. His response is always the same: “My sister’s unemployed, and they’re managing, so it’s fine.” I feel like I’m losing it with the two of them, and I don’t know what to do anymore.11.2K
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