Jocky Hecka month agoI (25M) have been in a relationship with my girlfriend (24F) for three years, and we’ve been living together for just over a year. Recently, an incident occurred during one of her girls’ nights that left me feeling embarrassed and unsure of how to express my feelings. On Friday night, it was her turn to host her friends for their usual get-together while I was in the living room playing video games with my friends. As the evening unfolded, my girlfriend and her friends came into the living room, clearly in a playful and tipsy mood. At one point, she fell to the floor and called for my help. When I got up to assist her, she unexpectedly yanked my joggers down, exposing me to her and her friends. They all erupted in laughter, and while I tried to brush off the embarrassment, I felt humiliated. After helping her up, I walked into the kitchen to escape the laughter, waiting for things to quiet down before heading to the bedroom to sleep. About an hour later, I heard her say goodbye to her friends and then join me in bed. She attempted to initiate intimacy, but I pretended to be asleep because I just wasn’t in the mood after what had happened. The next morning, I woke up early to play basketball with my friends and shared the incident with them. They were shocked and told me that what happened was essentially sexual harassment, and they would be furious if they were in my position. When I returned home, my girlfriend was awake and immediately sensed something was off. She asked why I hadn’t woken her up before leaving, and I explained that I didn’t want to disturb her, as I was still processing my feelings about the previous night. I’ve noticed that she has been extra attentive and accommodating since then, which makes me think she might realize she crossed a line. However, I’m still struggling to articulate my feelings about the situation. I want to be honest with her without escalating the issue or causing unnecessary conflict. How can I effectively communicate how I feel about what happened?130
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