Hyacinth Caria month agoMy husband works in insurance and won a trip to Punta Cana for the second week of February. I told him I’d love to join him so we could have some time to relax together. But he said he doesn't want me to go because he'll be working the whole time, which I don't really believe to be the case. He's never traveled before, while I’ve traveled a lot, so I offered that I could do my own thing while he works if that's what he prefers. What really hurts, though, is that I even suggested upgrading his room to make it a more enjoyable experience for both of us, and he's turned down all the options I’ve given him. It feels like he’s not even considering what I want, and I’m left feeling dismissed and unimportant. I just don’t understand why he’s being so resistant, and I wish we could have this time together to relax, even if he does have to work a bit.144