Allie Tophera month agoI've been feeling a bit off about how things have changed in our communication. When we first started doing long distance, he would call me all the time, even if it meant calling late at night when he didn't have his phone. I didn't mind at all—I was always eager to hear from him. But recently, it's been the opposite. He hardly ever calls me, even when he has a full day off. It feels like I’m the one doing all the calling now, and I start to feel like I’m bothering him. I’ve mentioned this to him and asked why he doesn't call as often anymore. His reasons seem to be things like not wanting to call when his roommates are around or saying that he was going to call me in a bit. But it just feels like excuses, especially when I think back to the times when he would call me no matter what. I guess I just don’t understand why the change, and it’s been on my mind lately.139
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