Bart Petula2 months agoI've been with my partner for almost 10 years. We have lived together for a long time and have a 7 year old daughter. At the end of last year, just before my birthday, I discovered something that devastated me: he was posting nude photos of himself on Reddit, on different channels, seeking attention and praise from anyone — men or women. This had been happening for months. It wasn't one or two images; There were many, countless photos. To make matters worse, some of them had our daughter's room in the background. He took these photos late at night while she and I slept in my room. He stayed in her room because he played video games late, something that had never bothered me before. When I confronted him, I asked for a separation. He cried a lot and begged for my forgiveness. Despite the pain, I forgave him. However, a few weeks later I discovered he was doing it all again. I honestly believe he never stopped. Since then, I have had nightmares almost every night. I wake up with the suffocating feeling that I'm trapped in the worst moment of my life. This event took me to rock bottom countless times, and it's hard to face the reality that this all happened to me. Despite everything, I really want to forgive him. I love him, I love our family, and I never wanted any of this to happen. I don't want my daughter to grow up far from her father. However, the pain is constant, and the doubt never leaves me. I've never been through a situation like this before. I need advice, someone to help me, because I can't carry this weight alone anymore.19301
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