Amaya Janiea month agoMy boyfriend (19M) went to visit this guy today who I know doesn’t like me. Earlier this year, he sent me a bunch of really disgusting and rude messages, which caused a lot of tension between us. My boyfriend hadn’t spoken to him since, but yesterday he decided to go see him to get some pants back, which I was okay with, as long as it was just for the pants. However, when he went to meet him today, he couldn’t get the pants and ended up deciding to hang out with him instead. I was uncomfortable with that, especially considering everything his friend had said to me (the messages were some of the nastiest things you can say to someone). I was home, cutting a pomegranate when I saw that my phone had been blowing up. I saw texts saying things like "you cheated" and "call me back," so I called him back, assuming maybe he was worried because I didn’t answer earlier. When I called him, he told me that his friend’s ex said I had told her that I cheated on him. But I never did. I’m not even that close with her— we’ve hung out maybe four times, and when we talked about relationships, it was mostly about her awful boyfriend and how she should leave him, which caused the whole situation with his friend messaging me all those horrible things. I asked her if she said anything about me, and she said no. The only things she mentioned were about her cheating on him. But my boyfriend doesn’t believe me. He thinks, "Why would they lie?" I have my own theory about why his friend might be lying— he doesn’t like me, and he’s probably mad that my boyfriend doesn’t talk to him anymore, or he might’ve misheard the conversation with his ex. Sorry for the long post and run-on sentences. I’m just really stressed out right now and don’t know how to prove to my boyfriend that I never cheated. I’m going to see him later, so I’ll update you afterward.131
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