Carina Mirtaa month agoI (35F) feel uneasy about the idea of staying overnight at my boyfriend's (29M) parents' house. He lives there with his mother, her husband, his older sister, and her children. I have my own home, where my 18-year-old son also lives. My boyfriend has been spending the night at my place quite often, which I prefer. He argues that since he pays rent, he should be able to host me at his home as well, and he feels it's unfair that he always has to come to me. He claims that the commute to his job is the same from either location, but for me, it's more complicated. The drive from my house is longer, and I need extra time to get home and prepare for the next day. I find it uncomfortable to stay in someone else's home, especially since I don't know his mother very well. It just feels a bit strange to me, and he thinks I'm being unreasonable and not willing to compromise. I'm interested in hearing how others might feel in a similar situation.138
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