Bram Dulciea month agoShe broke up with me a couple of days ago, and since then, I’ve felt completely broken. The relationship was generally good, with its flaws that we were working through. Lately, I noticed that she had been acting colder, especially in her texts. This was my first serious relationship, and hers wasn’t. We’ve been together since mid-August.She said the reason for the breakup is that we are different people and that there was no spark between us. She also mentioned that I don’t challenge her enough intellectually or emotionally. She said she needs a partner who can challenge her, someone who can be an opponent in conversations. I asked her what I did wrong, and she said there was nothing wrong with me, that I was perfect.I was caring, loving, supportive, and always made an effort—gifts, food, making her feel special. She said I just don’t understand that she is a terrible girlfriend, very angry and egotistical. I told her that if she needed an opponent, I could try to be that for her, but she was strongly against it. She said she won’t change, and she doesn’t want me to change for her either. It feels like my heart was ripped out, especially since she was the one who showed me attention first, and we started dating.What do you think? Will I be able to heal from this? I asked if we could still be friends, but she said it would be difficult for both of us because it might be hard for her to stop loving me, and she might regret the breakup. However, I can already sense that she’s trying to push me out of her life. She does send me some reels, though.What should I do?131
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