Garret Sparrowa month agoThis situation has come up in the past two weeks, and I’m in a tough spot. I’m a 55-year-old man, and two women are saying they love me and want to get married and have kids. Woman 1 is 23, lives out of town, has a great living, is fun, and smiles a lot. She says she’s been hurt too many times and if this doesn’t work, she doesn’t know how she’ll cope. Woman 2 is 32, lives in town, had a tough last relationship that took her years to get over, and she’s the caretaker for her grandmother. However, her finances are not great. Both women are expressing love for me, and I do care about both of them a lot. I love them both, but for different reasons. Woman 1 has already updated some info, listing me as her fiancé. I know that both women would be devastated if I left either of them. I’m feeling lost, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t want to drag this out and risk hurting one or both of them. I need advice—this is urgent and I don’t want to make the wrong decision.134
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