Dannie Jazlyna month agoI'm feeling conflicted about my relationship right now and could really use some advice. I'm 24 and have been with my boyfriend, who is 28, for over three years. We got together shortly after my last serious relationship, and while I didn't plan for it, he seemed so perfect for me that I quickly fell in love with him. Over the last two years, we've bought a house, gotten pets, and are close to getting engaged. He is truly an amazing partner—he's caring, never raises his voice at me, takes care of me when I'm sick, and is incredibly loyal. Recently, I went back to my hometown to visit friends and family, and I had an amazing time. The problem is, since I returned, I’ve been feeling an overwhelming emptiness. The house we bought is in a very small town, and both of us have struggled to make friends. I was content with my life before the trip, but now, after being around people I love, I feel unsettled. My boyfriend has been really supportive and has been trying to plan activities to cheer me up, but nothing feels the same. I keep thinking about moving back to my hometown to be closer to my family and friends, but I'm also considering the huge change and wondering if it’s worth it. I feel guilty for even having these thoughts, as my boyfriend is an amazing person and I know he would do anything for me. But I can't shake the feeling that I'm missing out on the fun and excitement I had when I was living near everyone I care about. I’m scared that if I stay here in this small town with no friends or family nearby, I’ll regret it. I’ve already started looking into therapy to see if it might help me process all of this, but I’d really appreciate any advice or insights from others who have felt similarly. Should I stay in a relationship that’s stable and fulfilling but feels a bit lonely at times, or should I make a change for the sake of my own happiness?131
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