StJohn Brittany2 months agoI (28F) have been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend (30M) for five years, and we’ve lived together for two. We've often talked about our future, and he's always said he sees us getting married at some point. However, when I recently asked him about timelines, he admitted that he's "not ready" for marriage yet. While I don’t want to pressure him, I’ve been clear that I would like to start a family in the next few years. He says he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me, but the idea of marriage overwhelms him. We’ve had multiple honest discussions, and although I understand his hesitation, it’s difficult not to take it personally. My family and friends have started asking questions, and I’m beginning to wonder if this is a deeper issue or if we’re simply on different paths. How can I revisit this conversation without making him feel pressured? I need clarity on our future while balancing patience with advocating for my own needs.149
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