Kaylee Tylara month agoI (21F) have been best friends with a guy (21M) for years, and we’ve also worked together for a long time. I’ve always had feelings for him, but I know he doesn’t feel the same way. Recently, he started dating someone else, who I’m also good friends with. While we still talk frequently and see each other often, it’s not quite the same as before. The issue is that I can’t seem to stop these feelings for him. We have such a special bond, and even though I want him to be happy with his girlfriend, it’s hard to ignore how much I care about him. Deep down, I know he values me as a friend, and I don’t want to lose him no matter what. But it’s really difficult for me to get over my feelings, especially since he’s the person I turn to for everything and the one who makes me happiest. He’s told me that he loves and cares about me, but it’s not in the same way. I want to be okay with just being friends, but I don’t know how to do that without going crazy. How do I get over these feelings without losing him as a friend?139
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