Zenia Kathlyna month agoYou (20F) have been in a relationship with your boyfriend (22M) for almost two years. About seven months ago, you discovered that he had been texting another girl during your relationship, complaining about your relationship, and even asking her to hook up. While you found out that nothing physical occurred between them, it was a big betrayal, and the situation worsened as you later learned he was secretly hanging out with this girl late at night under the guise of studying. You also discovered that he had a past with another girl who he used to like, which led to feelings of insecurity about their friendship. He had lied to you about certain things, and you have struggled with trust issues since then. Even though he’s been more attentive and loving recently, you still feel uneasy, especially with the lack of effort he’s shown toward your relationship, like not celebrating your birthday or putting in the same romantic effort he once did. You’re questioning if this is something that can be fixed or if it’s time to let go. You also feel guilty for being upset and haven’t told your parents or close friends about the situation because they like him and you feel ashamed.140