Lucila Felicianoa month agoI’m in a bit of a dilemma regarding my boyfriend, and I could really use some advice. Before we started dating, I heard that he had a crush on one of my friends. She told me that they had exchanged texts for a few days and that he made some advances, but she made it clear she wasn’t interested, and they agreed to just be friends. At that time, my boyfriend and I didn’t know each other well, except for a few brief encounters. Once we actually started talking, we really clicked, and I feel like we have a great connection. He has mentioned that he considers my friend a friend and that they occasionally text, but only for simple questions—nothing more significant. Part of me feels uneasy knowing he found her attractive and that he made a pass at her before we got together. I’m torn between wanting to call him out on it and expressing my feelings or just letting it go since it happened before we were involved. I don’t want to come off as jealous, but I can’t help but feel a bit insecure about the whole situation. I’m 27, and he’s 31, so I feel like I should be more mature about this, but I can’t shake off these feelings. Should I address this with him, or is it better to let it slide and focus on our relationship? Thanks for any insights you can share!143
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