Lysette Milania month agoI’m 28F, and my boyfriend (31M) and I have been together for over 3 years, living together for 2. We have a strong bond—we’re both autistic/ADHD game nerds who love gaming together, sometimes with friends. We’re pretty social, and although he has Asperger’s, he has a lot of friends due to his involvement in sports. I’m usually quite social as well. On New Year’s Eve, we went to his friend’s place for some drinks and fun. Things took a bad turn when he drank a lot of whiskey and then took a bag of ketamine. After that, he became unconscious and barely breathing. I had to call 911, and it was a terrifying experience. He’s now signed up for an addiction clinic and is having conversations about his behavior, but I’m struggling with trusting or respecting him again. The sober version of him is the sweet, nerdy boyfriend I love, but the drunk and high version wrecked everything we had. We’ve just bought a house together and were in a good place before this happened. I’m lost right now and don’t know how to move forward. Will this ever get better?1996
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