Devyn Koria month agoMy girlfriend (24F) recently joked about having her close male friend (20sM) move into the spare bedroom of our small apartment. I’m not sure if she was serious, but I really don’t want that to happen. While I trust my girlfriend completely and know she doesn’t find him attractive, I think it would make me uncomfortable and potentially lead to issues. I wouldn’t be able to feel relaxed in my own space or have the alone time I need. I also worry that it might affect our relationship, and I might feel resentful over time. When he has visited before, we’ve all just hung out as friends, but I don’t think I’d enjoy having him around all the time. I’ve felt uncomfortable in the past when she worked hard to make sure he didn’t feel like a third wheel, often at the expense of our alone time. I also just think it’s strange to have a single male friend moving in, even though she sees him as just a “girl best friend.” I’d be okay with another couple or a female friend, but I know she wouldn’t feel the same way.139
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